Sunday, 18 June 2017

WHO ARE YOU?




Some time ago,i was invited for an interview, after introducing myself and what i do, i got to answer other questions, until this question "Who are you" popped up again. And then i got confused, in my mind, i was like, i thought i answered that question in my introduction.
I recently met with the CEO of Nicademia, African's top cartoon producers and we got talking, i told him how i could be of help to them as a writer. I showed him some of my books and somehow i was able to convince him of how i could be of value to Nicademia. as we got talking, his colleagues will come say hi to him and he would introduce me to them. And it never ended at " meet Pamela Mogekwu, a writer and a new addition to Nicademia team" He would go on and on, on how he has seen my books and loved it and how different publishers have published my works and even Macmilian one of African's top publishers. At a point i got uncomfortable, not because what he was saying wasn't true but because i don't know if i have ever spoken about myself the way he did. At a point i felt like carrying him along to functions where i needed to pitch and speak about myself so he could introduce me, because he seemed to be doing a better job than myself. But the truth remains, no body knows me better than myself, so i felt the need to spend time to learn how to introduce myself, so that when i am done, the question "Who are you" wouldn't have to pop up later on.
I have recently gotten to realise that my greatest fear is loosing myself. There are times, i have let my look, how i feel, determine who i am. But doing that will be committing a great error, because who we are is a greater percentage on the inside, it's our mind set. So if you want to have a good knowledge of who you are, you should search inward.
I am very aware of my strengths and weaknesses, but like every human, we are made of strengths and weaknesses but we must let our strengths define us.Refuse to live like a chicken when you are meant to soar high like an eagle. Ladies to boost your self confidence, order my book "Day Of Glory" send a mail to FHpublishers@yahoo.com

Thursday, 15 December 2016

DAY OF GLORY CHRISTMAS GIVE AWAY

Hey guys, it's ten days to christmas and in the spirit of sharing. Get your free ebook of DAY OF GLORY. Tell me why self -love is important for every woman(women yea because the book is focused on women) send your answer to
FHpublishers@yahoo.com
And get DAY OF GLORY forwarded to you

Thursday, 8 December 2016

Friday, 18 November 2016

MAD PEOPLE EVERY WHERE





Lets begin with the definition of insanity. It is a severe mental illness, it is any thing foolish or unreasonable. Madness goes beyond what we see physically, it is not just the display of action or looks of a person. It is also about an individual state of mind. There are mad people every where and they dont just know it. You just might be living with one now. I was finding it hard to check my social media page because i was disgusted about a lot of things. I heard about the child burnt to death for stealing in Lagos, at first i didn't want to believe it, i felt it was barbaric. Till i saw pictures every where. Who are the people that indulged in that act? MAD PEOPLE. secondly the issue of rape is on the rise. What do you call a grown up man who looks upon a child of two years to get sexual gratification. MAD right? Every problem or crisis we experience in the country and the world as a whole is one way or the other related to insanity. If you indulge in acts that causes destruction, pain, undevelopment, unprogressiveness. You need to check your mental state. Now considering the fact that madness is apparent amongst us. What then should we do because obviously the psychiatric homes can't accommodate the large percentage of insane people amongst us. EDUCATION is the solution. It might not bring an end to the problem but it will go along way to help curtail it.The mind set of humans have to be set right. I am getting mad over this madness like seriously, it is high time ILLITERACY becomes illegal and purnishable by law. Who is with me on this?

Wednesday, 16 November 2016

YOU CAN'T ALWAYS RELY ON OTHERS



Stand up for what is right, even if you are alone. William Penn stated, "Right is right, even if everyone is against it, and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it." Even if your friends were to always have your back and be there to support you,you have to keep in mind that they have lives of their own. Learning to stand on your own two feet all the time will make it easier to stand alone when things get ugly and there is no one there to help you; This is not to say that we shouldn't ever ask for help, we should ask as often as possible. However, we must be ready to take on any burden ourselves if that is the only possible solution. The real world might feel like a big competition, but there's only one person you need to defeat and that person is"YOURSELF". Do not rely on others. If they can't help, you must become your hero. Does an athlete stop his race if there are no cheers from the spectators? Like an athlete, we must run to the finish line and fulfill our purpose with or without cheers, support, and encouragement from friends.
YOU CAN ALWAYS TRUST IN THE POWER OF GOD
God is able to help those who seek him easier than those who don't. He is waiting to help with hands outstretched, we just have to be willing to come to him and use His help. When we put our trust in God and rely on him, the challenges we face wouldn't break us but rather they will strenghten our faith and build us up. We all have trials and difficulties which in a way help us grow and and achieve our full potential. We can find the necessary strenght to overcome anything by relying on God.